Debauched Lust is the Alternative Dating Scene in the UK

Redheads, Goths, Punks, Metal Heads, Emos, Tattooed Bodies of Art, Burlesque Performers, Fetish Queens, Vampires, Rockers, Bikers are looing for love and sex in the UK.

When you’re looking for a dating site that’s a little bit different but still offers the best the UK has to offer in niche dating then Debauched List is the ideal choice. Alternative dating brings together the best classic dating tools to ensure your total satisfaction and you get to meet people who live a more alternative lifestyle.

Debauched Lust is a niche fetish dating site and we pride ourselves on giving our members what they want rather than providing a mediocre service found elsewhere which try to be everything and end up being nothing. Our service is to provide men and women looking for something different with exactly what they want.

Fetish dating and the alternative scene go well to match a number of unique sexual desires beyond what society considers “normal”. We understand that and welcome members who actively enjoy some of the less common, yet equally enjoyable, sex acts focused around the world of BDSM, tattoos, bikers, Goths, skaters, rubber cosplay, burlesque, rockers and metal heads.

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If you’re new to the fetish & BDSM scene or very experienced we provide a friendly and safe environment. We work hard to remove abusive members and although our site is a way for you to explore you deepest sexual fantasies, it’s presented in a clean environment.


Designed for Desktop and Mobile

Find the dates for your ALT lifestyle anywhere and at any time with our optimised mobile app with full site fuctions.


Choose who you want to meet?

Singles, couples, straight, bisexual, gay, lesbian, groups and more. Your choice is only limited by your desires. Find your poison today.


Do whatever turns you on

Be tied and teased, used and abused, humiliated or degraded. BDSM enjoys so many forms and variations you will find the perfect submissive, Master or Mistress at Debauched Lust.

How to enjoy an Alternative Debauched Lifestyle

Alternative dating doesn’t have to be about the sex, although we know it’s a very enjoyable part. Debauched Lust caters for men and women who just want to find love, romance, and sex or make new friends. It’s all about finding other people who share your loves. If you feel marginalised or left out of other dating sites because you can’t tick a box which you really love then join us and find your box.

If you are a Goth, punk, metal head, emo, tattooed work of art, burlesque performer, fetish queen, vampire, rocker, biker or think leather and lace or big furry costumes are better than cotton then we’ve got members who want to meet you. Debauched Lust is a relaxed and enjoyable place to come and meet new friends and lovers with other like-minded adults so you don’t have to worry about being judged or misunderstood and you get to enjoy your alternative lifestyle in any way you want to.

Adult Dating for Adults without the XXX

The beauty of alternative dating means we are not an adult dating site, although we do cater to adult themes. This isn’t about brazenly displaying nude bodies, breasts or those horrendous cock pics men think will get them laid. While adult dating sites have their place in the world (and Personal Arrangement will give you all that) we are more of an in-between regular dating and adult dating. If you’re looking for sex and your passions include being dominant, submissive, tied up, water sports, humiliation, degradation, treated like a slave, or other more alternative sexual practises you’re more than welcome to join us. Regardless of your passions as a sub, Master or Mistress then we’ve probably got the perfect partner for you.

Play before you Pay

It’s important that you get to see what’s inside Debauched Lust before you hand over any money to enjoy the site at its fullest. We encourage using the free sign up in order to spend some quality time looking around the site. You can set up your profile, fill in all the details about who you are and what you’re looking for then search the site for other members with similar interests and location to find the perfect match for you, or you might find several people who pique your interests. Your free membership enables you u to fully assess Debauched Lust. You’re under no obligation to pay for anything ever with us. Only once you decide to send any messages or have access to read any messages you have received will you need to pay the monthly subscription and we’ve got some great deals for people who want to pay for several months at once.

To really help our new members get themselves noticed we have the World Famous Ice Breaker which enables you to send a message of introduction to all our members, or narrow it down to specific members’ location or fetishes.

Full membership also allows you to fully take part in Debauched Lust, apart from being able to send and receive messages you get the added benefits of full member chat, web cams and read and write the online diaries where you and other members can share more information about your interests and blog about the people you date! We provide all the tools for a fun and safe alternative dating experience and we want you to have fun and meet the people you want to meet. No hassles, no obligations and plenty of pleasure.

No matter who you are

What fetish you’re into

  • Anal
  • Bondage
  • Watersports
  • Role Playing
  • Oral Sex
  • BDSM
  • Voyeurism
  • Rubber, Latex & Leather

Where you want to do it

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